Thursday, April 14, 2011

Half Way Mark

Today marks the half way point in my contact with UCQ. The time has gone so quickly - and I don't think it is just the fact of my stage in life that has me saying that. Every expat I talk to has the same experience of time passing quickly here. It is indeed curious.

So what have I learned in my time here?
1. That I am more resilient than I ever knew I could be.
2. That I can live in a smaller space than I do in Calgary.
3. That international travel is not as scary as I thought it would be.
4. That the world really is smaller, and yet much larger, than I thought it was:
a. smaller - all cultures have the same hopes and dreams for their families;
b. larger - long flights wear me out!
5. What it feels like to be among the minority population.
6. That I live a truly privileged life - may I NEVER take it for granted.
7. That Canada is the best country in the world!

. . . and probably a lot more that I am unable to articulate.

In the past few months I have given a lot of thought to the idea of 'home.' Doha is feeling a lot like home to me lately, and I know now that I can make a home anywhere that I can connect with people and feel that I am making a contribution. I remember the day I first entered my apartment here in Doha and saying, "OK, this is your home for the next three years." It has taken some time to settle in and add those things that make it comfortable and express my personality. I've gathered some wonderful things on my travels that now adorn my walls, floors and tables, lovely reminders of the experiences I never expected to have. I've also gathered some wonderful new friends from all across Canada. Because it is difficult to connect with Qataris, we depend on each other for fun and support. We have become a family. Sadly, some of the family will be returning to Canada this year, their contracts now completed.

It's hard to be away from my North American family and friends, and thank goodness for the wonders of modern technology that keep us in touch. Life takes us all on our individual journeys, and I feel so fortunate to have received the opportunity to go on this wild and wonderful adventure. I am grateful to my family and friends for supporting and encouraging me to reach beyond my comfort zone. I love you all!